Since the hiss is reduced when lowering the DXR's input (and not increased by raising Kempers output), this exess hiss is due to improper gain staging, and comes from additional gain on the DXR. The DXR can take a maximum of +16 dBu on input 2, and Kemper's maximum TS output is in fact +16 dBu. There really is no need to attenuate the monitor out at all Just be sure to keep the Kemper's output led out of the red.
EDIT: I see that there's not much to go on, as the DXR's input approaches "OFF" at this point....so just set Kemper's output where you feel it's a good balance. Anyway, you shouldn't be afraid to overload the DXR
Is dBu an absolute unit of measurement, unrelated to input signal strength and gains throughout the chain preceding the monitor out volume control?