Totally agree with your sentiment. I too was a 70s hippie and went through Fender heavy picks like water. Ton of great picks, everyone has their favorite and swears by them. Loves Torte , Dunlop - had a real thing for Claytons.
Then things changed. A friend of mine was a guy named John McGann He started the Americana / bluegrass program at Berkelee college of music. He was a long time friend and jamming buddy (brilliant too. Sadly he passed away probably close to 10 years ago). Anyway , about 12 years ago or so I was picking with him at a jam session, and he was wowed by this amazing pick he was turned onto. He asked me try his Blue Chip. It was like an out of body experience- sounds dumb, I know, but it was for me in some weird way. It is the pick of choice by far away n the flatpick (bluegrass) guitar and Mando world. sure there was will more and even better picks coming down the pike.