To me, "Feel" is a very real thing. It is the way a piece of gear responds to playing dynamics. Most modelers I have owned had a more compressed dynamic and tonal range than a good amp. Many of them did this to the point of making all guitars sound more alike.
If an amp is miced in another room, and you are listening to it through studio monitors, the amp still responds to the way you play, and you can hear the changes.
Come to think of it, that is exactly how I compared the KPA to real amps when I first got it.
I'm so glad Paul wrote a post wher I simply need to add a +1.