1) well, as you probably know, your guitar speaker acts as a sort of low-pass filter for the sound your amp produces. Most modelers emulate the speakers frequency response already. So if you amplify your modelers output, and use a guitar cab, you would "filter" the sound twice, which may sound cool, but does not reproduce the originally intended sound. using a normal PA speaker (or in guitar terms FRFR) your sound is only filtered once through the modelers cab emulation, and the PA speaker is flat. Or you would use a real guitar cab and disable your modelers cab emulation. That may be a valid choice but omits some advantages of modeling (more on that later)
2) didn't read that, but a thing to be aware of is that in cheap-ass speakers the crossover point at 1kHz or so between mid-low driver and horn is very critical. If your speaker is designed badly that frequency range is very harsh. Maybe they meant this?
3) brrrrrrrr, stay away from this. if you would take an impulse response from the DEQ + cab (hmmm work intensive...), Kemper would probably be able to pull this, BUT you are misusing your gear, trying to let a guitar cab reproduce things it isn't designed for, using extreme EQ settings, and therefore extreme phase anomalies. Correcting in the frequency domain leads to problems in the time domain and vice versa, and can mess with your available amp power.
To get back that 'more on that later' thing: In my experience as FOH tech, the big advantage of a modeler is that you can go straight into FOH with your line-outs, which gives you less stage noise from loud amps, and a clearer sound (no bleed from the drums into the guitar cab mic). Both make it easier to get a good FOH sound without ear-bleeding noise levels (and thats what we get paid for). In an ideal situation the only one allowed to make noise on stage is the drummer, there are only in-ears and no amps or speakers on stage. You can ask yourself why you would bother with a cab? FOH can deliver my guitar through the monitor mix? But there are many people who want to let their guitar feedback, or don't use a PA (some bands just put vocals through PA). Then a cab may prove handy. That just leaves the question: FRFR or guitar? Depends on what you'll like, but with FRFR you can choose the guitar cab your modeler emulates on the spot, with a physical guitar cab, you're stuck with that cab, but you have the sound of a real cab instead of a miced cab...